Honor yourself.Honor your children.
AYRA helps parents in high-conflict separation keep a clear head and a clear record. Bring in what’s said, see what’s really there, and answer the way you mean to.
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For the parent choosing steadiness over reaction.
You don’t need to be perfectly calm. Just a little better than last time.
The message comes in at 10 PM. You read it three times. You answer quickly, and somewhere in the middle of typing you already know it did not come out the way you meant. Then you wait for what comes back.
Meanwhile, the messages keep piling up. Your lawyer may have asked you to keep records, but all you have is a folder of screenshots that never tells the whole story. And through all of it, you’re trying to keep your child out of the middle.
AYRA is for the parent carrying that alone. It shows you what is actually in the message, helps you answer the way you mean to, and builds a clear record as you go.
Meet AYRA
Where steadiness is built.
Nothing for your co-parent to download and nothing for them to agree to. Bring in a message from text, email, or a Parenting App, wherever the conversation already happens. AYRA reads it with you, and everything it holds is yours.
Take a look around. Explore the demo below and get a feel for how AYRA works. Use the menu on the left to move through each section.
Messages
Replying to your co-parent.
Write what you want to send.
The message you are replying to
Are you serious?! I have told you THREE TIMES that Saturday was a problem and you ignored it every single time!! You never listen and you never follow through. Everyone can see exactly what you are doing, and Sara already knows you are the one making this impossible. Fix it TODAY or I am done being reasonable!!
You
Hi, Saturday’s pick-up is set for 5:30 as agreed. If anything changes on my side I will let you know.
Kept here until you confirm you sent it, or remove it.
The AYRA Framework, beside you as you write.
Shown while you write. Nothing here is saved to your Record.
The wider view
AYRA never writes your message for you. Send it where you normally would, then confirm it here to add it to your Record.
AYRA works only if the record is accurate.
Patterns
21 Aug to 18 Nov 2026 · 118 entriesYou asked about the Saturday pickup time four times between 4 Nov and 11 Nov. One of the four has a message linked as an answer.
AYRA brings the messages together, so you can see the patterns over time.
See when there was more communication, and when AYRA noticed something in how it was said. Select any day to see the messages behind it.
What AYRA noticed
Both of you, on identical terms.
AYRA looks at both of you in the same way. Every count opens the messages behind it. Nothing here ranks either parent.
Follow-through
Confirmed commitments only.
See what happened after a commitment was confirmed. Select any number to see the commitments and messages behind it.
AYRA works only if the record is accurate.
Commitments
Not a list of promises. A record of what happened next.
You: “Can you have Sara back by six on Sunday?” Co-parent: “Yes, six is fine.”
“Sunday” means Sun 8 Nov, based on when the message was sent.
“Half of the swim fee will go over” this week.
Sent part of the swim money this morning, rest to follow.
Does this message belong to this commitment?
“I’ll try to get the deposit back to you before the end of the month.”
AYRA did not read this as a commitment, but you might.
AYRA works only if the record is accurate.
Record
Recent entries, 4 Nov to 18 Nov 2026.
Your history, kept in the original words, with the date, time and channel attached. Each entry is confirmed by you before it is added to the Record.
Are you serious?! I have told you THREE TIMES that Saturday was a problem and you ignored it every single time!! You never listen and you never follow through. Everyone can see exactly what you are doing, and Sara already knows you are the one making this impossible. Fix it TODAY or I am done being reasonable!!
Sent part of the swim money this morning, rest to follow.
Just confirming Saturday pickup at 5:30. Can you let me know either way?
Yes, six is fine.
Can you have Sara back by six on Sunday?
AYRA works only if the record is accurate.
Demonstration data. In AYRA, every number opens the entries behind it.
“I didn’t build AYRA to change my co-parent. I built it because I know what it’s like when communication is relentless, personal and engineered to pull you into the mud. After a while, you lose more than sleep. You start losing yourself. I needed space between what was coming at me and how I responded, so I could stay clear, stay grounded, and protect my child. Conflict takes up a lot of room in a separation. It shouldn’t get to take the parent with it.”
Steadiness
A private place to write how the day actually went, in your own words. Never analysed, never counted, and never part of anything you export.
It is not for the record. It is for you.
Three months from now, the message still comes in at 10 PM. What changes is what happens next.
You read it once. You see what needs your attention. You respond in a way you can stand behind. And you put the phone down.
Not a better inbox. A steadier parent.
The messages may not change. What they take from you can.
Private by design. Not by policy.
AYRA was built for one parent. There is no shared account to configure and no setting to get wrong.
Built for one parent.
There is no shared account, no invitation to send and nothing for your co-parent to join. AYRA never contacts them.
Your conversations and Record stay private.
Your co-parent cannot access your account or Record. Access within AYRA is limited to what is required to operate and support the service.
Your data is there to provide AYRA. Nothing else.
Your messages are not sold, licensed or used to train AI models.
Protected while it’s there. Gone when you leave.
Your data is encrypted while sent and stored. If you close your account, it is permanently deleted within 30 days.
One plan. No tiers.
Everything in AYRA is included. Start free for 30 days.
- Message analysis and the AYRA Framework while you write
- Commitments and follow-through
- Patterns across your Record
- Your Record with dates, times and channels
- Search across your Record
- PDF export
- Steadiness, private to you
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Frequently Asked Questions
What happens after my 30-day trial?
If you keep your subscription, you move onto the plan you selected. We’ll email you before your first charge, and if you cancel before the trial ends you won’t be charged.
Can I cancel during my trial?
Yes. You can cancel at any time during your trial. Your access continues until the trial ends, and you won’t be charged.
What’s included in my subscription?
Everything. There are no premium tiers or locked tools.
Can I switch between monthly and annual billing?
Yes. You can change your subscription from your account settings at any time.
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